Dong Jie's words "absorbed to gambling" and "high debt" directly pushed Pan Yueming to the forefront. For a moment, everyone thought he was an irresponsible "bad man".
Who knew that a photo that the paparazzi later broke completely reversed the trend of public opinion.
It turns out that Dong Jie is the one who "cheating" and making trouble.
The former golden boy and jade girl ended up with a grudge.
Now that after years of divorce, Pan Yueming has finally gained everyone's recognition with his acting skills.
Dong Jie is still lukewarm, and even "it's hard to change her nature", and she also implicated her only son.
01. Pan Yueming counterattacked, Dong Jie suffered a bad consequence
When talking about Pan Yueming, everyone will sincerely praise him for being a "powerful person" and firmly sit in the position of a middle-aged male actor in the front line.
In 2017, a movie called "White Night Chasing the Murder" made him successful. In the play, he played Guan Hongfeng and Guan Hongyu, and interpreted the twins with different personalities to the fullest. His superb acting skills are amazing.
Since then, he has been making great works, such as Chen Yulou in "The Angry Xiangxi" and Hu Bayi in "The Mysterious Cave of Dragon Ridge". Every character has been interpreted by him and his reputation has soared.
Since disappeared for many years, he finally got rid of the haze brought by the divorce storm that year, achieved a gorgeous counterattack in his career, and became more and more popular.
Looking at Dong Jie again, his "face" has changed, and his career development has become even more unsatisfactory.
She wanted to return to her peak by filming, but most of the works she participated in were mediocre and did not arouse any splash.
The road has been a bit bumpy over the years. She always wants to return to the public's vision by filming. The optional characters either have no memory or can't support the popularity.
For example, playing Empress Fucha in "Ruyi's Royal Love in the Palace", although she was highly anticipated in the early stage, she did not cause much trouble after the broadcast.
Later she filmed dramas such as "Nanjing Love" and "Yunshui Ballad", covering themes such as the Republic of China and the modern era, and even tried mother roles. However, either the drama itself was not popular, or her performance did not make any breakthroughs, and she never caused much trouble.
In fact, Dong Jie's starting point is not low. She had the halo of "Ming Girl" in her early years, and became a national goddess by "Leng Qingqiu". But a good hand of cards was finally defeated by her choice back then.
Now she wants to turn over but can't find the direction, so she can only turn around. In the final analysis, this situation was caused by herself.
What is even more heartbreaking is that Dong Jie's obsession not only affected herself, but also slowly affected her son Dingding.
02. The sweeter it used to be, but the ugly it was later
In 2005, Pan Yueming and Dong Jie met while filming "Red Yifang". At that time, Pan Yueming was handsome and sunny, while Dong Jie was pure and charming, like a fairy descending to earth.
As soon as the two met, they were like dry fire, and the sparks of love were quickly sparked.
Pan Yueming pursued Dong Jie with passion. He expressed his love without hesitation. He would buy various snacks for Dong Jie during the crew's rest, and would silently hand over a cup of hot tea when Dong Jie was tired of filming.
Dong Jie was also moved by Pan Yueming's sincerity, and the two soon fell in love.
In 2008, they entered the palace of marriage.
The following year, the birth of his son Dingding added endless joy to the family.
Pan Yueming was upgraded to his father with joy. He cared for Dong Jie and his children very much, and wished he could give them all the best things in the world.
The family's life is so happy that it is enviable. Pan Yueming has praised Dong Jie many times, "Marry a good wife."
However, no one expected that this seemingly indestructible happiness would suddenly collapse in 2012.
Dong Jie's studio suddenly posted a message saying: The two have divorced, and also accused Pan Yueming of being "indulgent to gambling", "rude and rude", and even having fun outside when she was pregnant.
As soon as the news came out, netizens all blamed Pan Yueming, and his career suffered a heavy blow.
On the whole night, Pan Yueming became a good actor who everyone praised to the public.
He said during that time, "the sky was gray. It was really scary, it was very scary. He always hid in the room and didn't go out."
Let a big man say such lingering fears, which shows how severe he is being hurt.
But just when everyone was "accusing" Pan Yueming, things took a dramatic reversal.
Zhuo Wei exposed photos of Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi kissing passionately in Hainan. Now the truth is revealed to the world.
It turns out that Dong Jie cheated on her during marriage. Her previous accusations against Pan Yueming were just to make excuses for her cheating behavior and try to make a comeback.
Speaking of Wang Dazhi, his appearance is very different from that of Pan Yueming.
But Dong Jie came with him desperately for the sake of so-called passion and romance.
After this inappropriate love was exposed, Dong Jie's image collapsed instantly, and she changed from a goddess that everyone loves to a "rat crossing the street" that everyone shouted and beat.
But passion cannot stand the test of time after all, and the relationship between her and Wang Dazhi did not last long and ended with a breakup.
Afterward, the kind Pan Yueming reflected on himself and felt that he might have been too busy with work in his marriage and ignored Dong Jie's need for "romance".
Although he never thought that Dong Jie would use this method to end their marriage.
In fact, for actors, it is common for them to get together, but Dong Jie couldn't stand the ordinary life, and eventually ruined her family with her own hands for a temporary passion.
However, even though she had such a tragic result, she still "hard nature can't be changed", and she even asked her son for "romance".
Pan Yueming always felt that their affairs should not affect the children, but what he was worried about still happened.
03. Deformed maternal love affects the son
After the divorce, Dong Jie obtained Dingding's custody.
I thought she would take good care of Dingding and give her children a warm environment for growth, but her "love" for Dingding became more and more deformed.
In variety shows, her behavior is incredible.
She often called Dingding "Dad" and asked Dingding to call her "little baby", which reversed the normal role between mother and son.
She will kiss Dingding without restraint, even hundreds of times a day, regardless of the child's feelings at all.
What's even more exaggerated is that she took her young Dingding to take wedding photos, and asked Dingding to kneel down on one knee to "propose" and said she wanted to "marry" her son. This behavior seriously violated normal ethical concepts.
In daily life, as long as Dong Jie doesn't follow her wishes, she will immediately get angry and cry.
Once I went skiing, Dingding was having fun, but Dong Jie suddenly sat on the ground and cried, saying that Dingding didn't care about her.
Dingding was obviously too tired and panting, but he still had to put down the ski in his hand, ran over to comfort her, and helped her get the snow gear.
A child who is only in his teenage years should have grown up carefree under the care of his parents, but Dingding has to act as his mother's "emotional trash can" every day, learn to observe his words and make his mother happy. This is really unfair to him.
Living in this deformed mother-son relationship for a long time, Dingding is much more mature than his peers. His eyes always reveal a kind of fatigue and helplessness that is not consistent with his age.
He took on the responsibility that was not his age too early and lost the happy childhood he should have.
This growth environment has had a lot of impact on his mental health and future development, which is really heartbreaking.
Pan Yueming may never have thought that his son, whom he held in his hand, would become what he is now because of Dong Jie.
If the relationship breaks down, you can start over, but once the child's childhood is destroyed, it will never be restored.
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