In 2018, Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei officially announced their divorce. During the seven years, Liu Kaiwei and his son occasionally mentioned their ex-daughter-in-law during interviews, and they always had a little vague words. Yang Mi seemed to have forgotten this person. No matter how the outside world guessed that she was indifferent or cowardly, she didn't respond a word, just focused on filming dramas and doing her career. Now she is at the top, which makes people see how good she can live.
Some netizens said that they used to think that Yang Mi was hard-hearted and that even the child’s father could forget it. Later, I saw her taking Xiao Nuomi and was photographed. I smiled and went to the amusement park with my children. I realized that she was not a tough heart, but she didn't want her children to hear the words of their parents criticizing each other.
Someone also saw an interview with Liu Kaiwei in his early years, saying that after the divorce, "the family is still family." He turned around and was asked about Yang Mi's recent situation, and hesitated and said "I don't know". There was a quarrel in the comment section below. Some people called him hypocritical, and some people blamed Yang Mi for not cooperating with creating a good image of her father. But what about Yang Mi, it seems that she hasn't even clicked on these hot searches to watch.
Actually, Yang Mi's trick is called "emotional separation". Psychology says that being entangled with your ex is the most consuming. The more you defend yourself, the more chance the other party will have to argue with you. In the end, it will become a joke after dinner. Her failure to respond is equivalent to directly cutting off the fuel for the topic. No matter how you ignite the fire, it will be exhausted without firewood.
You see, she filmed the assassination novelist in the second year of her divorce, and went on the fight scene myself, and continued to film the wire until she vomited. Later, he became famous based on the 28th law of love. He played an independent lawyer in the drama, and his lines were sturdy. She has no time to care about what her ex-husband says, her career is her confidence.
In the past, I always thought that celebrities would have to turn things around if they divorced, otherwise they would be wronged. Now that Yang Mi understands, true decency is not about winning or losing, but about living her life clearly. She doesn't scold her ex-husband, doesn't sell misery and gains sympathy, and just talks through works. This is really amazing.
If it were ordinary people who would say a few words from time to time when they met their ex-husband's family, they would probably not be able to resist the retort. But Yang Mi is not. She has spent 7 years proving that being truly powerful is not about winning a fight, but about living her own life well. You guys, is this the reason?
