Young couple immigrating to the UK, and Hong Kong parents want to go together to reunite! My daughter-in-law said she was too stressed to collapse

[Dian News Report] Taking care of parents during immigration has become a problem. Recently, a new hug who has immigrated to the UK complained on social networking websites that her husband is the only son and her grandparents who live in a public housing house in Hong Kong want to go to the UK with them. Recently, they called each day to ask when they would pick them up. Xinbao was worried about housing problems, saying that he could not afford to rent another floor or buy another floor, saying that he was "so much pressure that he collapsed"!

The new name of the English-English New School hugged the social platform threads, introducing herself first, saying that she was a couple born in the 1990s who immigrated to the UK for three years, almost 30 years old. She is now renting a one-bedroom unit in London, emphasizing that she is not an immigrant who sells Hong Kong property. Both of them are currently working, but the local living costs are high and the economic pressure is high. "My husband and I are both working in the London Office. The total family income is £140k before tax, but my job is not too stable, because I have to pay rent and bury the price. The economic pressure is that hard mode life is tight. Try not to go out on Saturday to save more money."

The author has aspirations for the future and has made plans, including "buying 3 bed houses in London, bbs (table 2 students), and buying 2 handcarts in flat land". However, if the grandparents arrive, it will cause a heavy burden and disrupt all plans.

The poster said that the grandparents wanted to immigrate to the UK with their son. "My husband is a duozi, and both parents are from Hong Kong. I want to come to the UK and I will beat my husband to ask when he will come here." The poster is worried about housing issues and believes that "it is easy to meet and live together, but there is friction when living together", but he cannot afford the expenses of another residence. "We really cannot afford to come to the UK to rent another floor or buy another floor."

The poster mentioned that the grandparents live in public housing in Hong Kong and have no income. "The grandparents live in public housing in Hong Kong and have no income. They have been 50 years old and have never done anything. They have always relied on their husbands to make some money in Hong Kong." She said, "I have never told her husband about it. What is the way to play with the phone after retirement at the age of 50!!! It's not easy to think about it."

The poster bluntly said that the pressure was so great that we collapsed, "We all have our own goals, so I came so stressed that we collapsed. I asked myself no questions." She understood that her husband did not want to keep two old people in Hong Kong, so she hoped to postpone it first. "My family will suggest that we should first learn to become a naturalized person and then do it ourselves."

A netizen left a message to ask a core problem, saying, "In fact, the core of the problem seems to be that you and your husband have no goals. If you want to be a filial boy, you want to buy a car and a house in London. If you spend your resources, you should use them first."

A netizen shared his experience as a person who has experienced it, "I have to live in Yijia with two pieces. It's more difficult than you know that it's better to have two years. You have to go to the supermarket every two days and cook every day, and you have to cook every day, and you don't have to be as big as 3 days. Yijia has already started to swallow it and use a mixer to beat it with a mixer, so you really have to think clearly whether it's noisy every day!"